Anyway, back to the posed photos problem. I realized that I need some pictures of my kids WITH me. I want pictures for myself and for them. I want to catch a few miracle shots where my deep love and pride is shining through. I want something that I can hang onto when they're off at college and living their own life miles away. I want something that they can use as an anchor. A photo that grounds them in the ups and downs and steadies them. A photo that whispers, "You are loved - profoundly - unconditionally." A photo that reminds them, in the eyes of this love, you can do anything.
Kids don't come with a guide. Parents don't have to pass any comprehensive exams to prove they are prepared for the lifelong vocation of parenting. Instead we worry, doubt ourselves, compare ourselves against others, and save money for the future therapy bills. The parenting test comes everyday. The only way to pass is with heaps of humility, honesty,and humor.
Saturday, March 3, 2012
Anchor Photos
I was looking through some pictures and was quickly bored by page after page of posed photos. I love photographs and for many years I kept beautiful histories of my life, all through pictures. My updates to the photo albums used to happen annually, at a minimum. I would sit down over Christmas break, visiting the in-laws, and quietly organize and sort the events of the past year into neat little pages. Now, the archival process seems to be happening on a per decade schedule. The number of photos I'm taking has decreased considerably too, so the backlog (unfortunately) isn't that bad.
Anyway, back to the posed photos problem. I realized that I need some pictures of my kids WITH me. I want pictures for myself and for them. I want to catch a few miracle shots where my deep love and pride is shining through. I want something that I can hang onto when they're off at college and living their own life miles away. I want something that they can use as an anchor. A photo that grounds them in the ups and downs and steadies them. A photo that whispers, "You are loved - profoundly - unconditionally." A photo that reminds them, in the eyes of this love, you can do anything.
Anyway, back to the posed photos problem. I realized that I need some pictures of my kids WITH me. I want pictures for myself and for them. I want to catch a few miracle shots where my deep love and pride is shining through. I want something that I can hang onto when they're off at college and living their own life miles away. I want something that they can use as an anchor. A photo that grounds them in the ups and downs and steadies them. A photo that whispers, "You are loved - profoundly - unconditionally." A photo that reminds them, in the eyes of this love, you can do anything.
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